Thursday, May 28, 2009

NOT ALL THINGS YOU WANT IS WHAT YOU GET

What will you do if you waited for someone- a person you called “the one”? He/she made things for you, someone who is very true. You were beyond his/her reach but still you can’t hold him/her. You want to have that person more, but friendship is just what matters most. Deep inside you, you know that he/she is the one that you’ve been waiting for. But remember that not all the things you want is always what you get. If only all sweet songs were true there will be no heartaches be made. Blessed is the one who found his/her true love. But its not any kind of ancient stories that has been told often lined “and they lived happily ever after…” Those stories were only in fairytales. Today there’s no existing Cinderella or Snow white anymore. Be realistic for sometimes, circumstances like failures were there for tests. No matter how you run from it, it still happens… still it follows you. Then when you can’t hide anymore, it’s the time you will face it. Sometimes, this leads to successful relationship, sometimes it leads to heartache. There’s a story that often heard and often read…

“ …A boy loves this girl but she didn’t mind him. The boy got sick and was dying when she realized how much she loves him. She asked, “Why are you leaving me?” and he answered, “I maybe gone but you will forever stay here in my heart.”


It was such a sad story, but it only portrays that nothing in this world is permanent except change. Mr. Perfect/Ms. Perfect is not always the right one for you. Maybe that one can reach all the qualities you’ve been looking for but he/she can’t help you to reach your dreams or on the saddest part he/she can’t love you back after all the things you’ve done. In that case don’t burry yourself unto him/her. The most important thing to know is that the man/woman you have to look for is the one you can really love unconditionally and can love you back and the one you love to talk with and can walk with you through the rest of your life although he/she cannot portray your perfect dream guy/girl.

It’s funny to think sometimes that the one you love didn’t like you, and the one who loves you is the one you really don’t like. Those circumstances always do happen. Its so sad to imagine sometimes that you’ve waiting for someone whom just ends up with a wrong one.
There were instances also that others may say “Bakit ngayon ka lang?” But things may just meant to happen that way, because you can never turn back the time. And again not all the things you want is what you get. Journeying through life is like walking on the street way home, while walking; there were people we met who can share the road with us, some for a lifetime, some were just for a moment then lately turn on the other path. They came by for the memories to share and lessons to keep that you can bring it until you reach you home with the person who stays with you.

Just think about this way… When you stop hoping and waiting, just sit at one corner maybe somehow or someway the one you’ve waiting for will come by unexpectedly and asks if he/she can share the corner with you!! Love is like catching a butterfly, the more you hunt the more it invades you, but if you just lay your hands flat open and wait, probably it will came into you voluntarily and lay into your palm silently. All the things you want to happen, don’t rush in a hurry… And don’t push yourself up to be on the place you want at the wrong time. Don’t be mad at failures; just tackle yourself on your objectives and visions. Who knows tomorrow will be your bright turn that only waits at the back of your door!
Though incomplete, enjoy life! It’s for free. Don’t find love, let love find you…

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